Everyone's life is driven by something.
How about you? And how about me?
1. Many people are driven by guilty.>Guilt-driven people are manipulated by memories.
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They allow their past to control their future.>They often unconsiously punish themselves by sabotaging their own success.
2. Many people are driven by resentment and anger.>They hold on to hurts and never get over them.
>Instead of releasing their pain through forgiveness,they rehearsal it over and over in their mind.
>Some resentment-driven people "
calm up" and internalize their anger.
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blow up" and explode it onto others. Both responses are unhealthy and unhelpful.
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Resentment always hurt you more than it does the person you resent.>LISTEN: [
Those who have hurt you in the past cannot continue to hurt you now unless you hold on to the pain through resentment. Your past is past!!! Nothing will change it! You are only hurting yourself with you bitterness. For my own sake, learn for it , and then let it go!]3. Many people are driven by fear.> Their fears may be a result of a traumatic experience, unrealistic expectations, growing up in a high-control home or others.
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Fear-driven people often miss great opportunities because they're afraid to venture out.>Instead they play it safe, avoiding risks and trying to maintain the status quo.
>Fear-driven people must move against with the weapons of faith and love.
4. Many people are driven by materialism.>Their desire to acquire becomes the whole goal of their lives.
>This drive to always want more is based on the misconceptions that having more will make them more happy, more important, and more secure, but all the three ideas are untrue!
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Possessions only provide temporary happiness!>Wealth can be lost instantly through a variety of uncontrollable factors.
>Real security can only be found in that which can never be taken from everyone, that's relationship with family and etc.
5. Many people are driven by the need of approval.>They allow expectations of parents or spouses or lover or teachers or friends to control their lives.
>Many adults are still trying to earn the approval of unpleasant parents.
>Others are driven by the peer pressure, always worried by what others might think.
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Being controlled by the opinions of others is a guaranteed way to miss the purpose for your life!---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ---- ----Well my life driven by resentment and anger, fear, materialism and the need of approval!I feel my life really meaningless!
I'm being controlled!
Yeah, I'm a robot!
Without a purpose, life is motion without meaning, activity without direction, and events without reason.Without a purpose, life is trivial, petty and pointless.Do you agree?
